Marriage Ceremony
Celebrating God's Gift of Love and Covenant
Marriage: A Gift from God
Marriage is a gift from God. We are reminded that God's love continues to manifest itself in the world and through human relationships.
If you are looking to get married and need a beautiful church to get married in, please contact Pastor Zach.
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up." — Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
The Lutheran Understanding of Marriage
Lutherans understand marriage as a holy estate created by God for the well-being of humanity. It is a public covenant made before God and witnesses, in which two people pledge lifelong love, faithfulness, and care for one another.
While marriage is not classified as a sacrament in Lutheran theology, it is nonetheless regarded as a sacred and blessed vocation — a calling in which husband and wife serve God by serving one another.
The Lutheran wedding service includes the reading of Scripture, prayer, the exchange of vows and rings, and the blessing of the couple by the pastor on behalf of the congregation. The entire service is an act of worship.
Planning Your Wedding at Bethel
Contact Pastor Zach Early
We encourage couples to contact Pastor Zach as early as possible — ideally six months to a year before the desired wedding date — to discuss availability and begin the planning process.
Pre-Marital Counseling
Pastor Zach requires pre-marital counseling sessions with all couples. These meetings are an opportunity to explore your relationship, discuss expectations, and prepare for a Christ-centered marriage.
Connection to the Congregation
Weddings at Bethel are generally open to members of the congregation and those with a meaningful connection to our church community. Please speak with Pastor Zach if you have questions about eligibility.
Music and Logistics
Couples work with our staff to arrange music, flowers, and other logistics. Our Music Director Sylke is available to assist with musical selections for the service.
What to Expect in the Service
A Lutheran wedding service typically includes a processional, an opening prayer, Scripture readings, a homily from Pastor Zach, the exchange of vows and rings, the blessing of the marriage, prayers for the couple and their families, and a closing benediction.
The service is designed to be both meaningful and personal. Couples are encouraged to participate in selecting Scripture readings, hymns, and other elements that reflect their faith and their story.
Get in Touch
To learn more about having your wedding at Bethel Lutheran Church, please contact Pastor Zach.